You missed the point entirely, its the FACT that people do see these words differently that is the issue, these are not words/names that are commonly accepted by the majority, they are words surrounded/associated with derogatory meanings. The point trying to be made here is just because you or someone else thinks its ok, others do not. That is the issue here for these words/names. The only delusion here is you trying to force your beliefs on others and refusing to acknowledge that other people view the world different, your belief being that others cant be right/correct in thinking these words have negative meaning to others. That's the whole issue here, is that name offensive to others, and it is but is it enough to warrant action?