I've seen so many people turn a simple round of.. whatever, into a hostile environment without using "Fag" or the "N" word, It's just words, but people who let things get out of hand is what empties a server.
Anyone who would get called a "fag" or any other word that revolves around homosexuals but turned into insults, would get upset, I'm not much of a talking in game but haven been called one and has at a time, been frustrated enough by bullshit said it to myself in my head, to avoid having any contact, let alone causing a hostile or trolling environment.
I can't say, "People should just get over it and ignore that shit" as much as I wish people would be like that than this community wouldn't fear drama and shit-storms on a daily basis.
I don't want anyone to think the purpose of my post is to say, "blame the person who reacts" It's not.
Too many things can be said that would piss someone off, but banning the word won't solve it.
Just Gag the jackass who says it.
gawd.
Edit: Personally having someone harass someone or myself, I find it better to target that person, cause obviously someone trying to start shit need their shit kicked in.