Honestly I don't know what to think of this anymore. While an admin should be capable of using the ban commands and instinctively knowing what actions are and are not punishable and act accordingly, which I have no doubt Lady is capable of, they should also be able to stay level-headed and objective to any situation that is present regardless of the people involved and therein lies the issue. I think the root of this whole issue is that Lady brings too much of her personal life into skial. Don't get me wrong here, one of the reasons why skial's one of the best communities is because of the social connections, however it's one thing to discuss personal interests, goals, and real-life locations on a teamspeak but when you delve into the realm of e-relationships then things start getting too complicated for anyone to handle.