Well I guess I just assumed the worst but if it's not that bad then re-get to know them. If it was "everything you know is wrong" in a bad way - then fuck 'em
Thats not a bad lie. He/she probably told it so he wouldnt be pitied or etc. He wanted to fit in and not on a way of lying about wealth/personality. But o doubt that the fact hes adopted makes all what you know about him a lie. Just the fact he witheld a personal problem does not mean you dont know anything about him. I doubt he puts on a double life. He just did not tell you hes adopted nor does he need to.
Hell if I was adopted i wouldnt wanna tell anyone, cause I don't like being treated differently with pity/a handicap due to the fact i am not with my biological family.
My father is not my biological father, I found that out when I was about 10. Didn't matter one bit to me, my father gave me love and taught me about life, that's what matters here. in fact someone who does all that with another persons child is an even greater man.
I ended up with a similar thing like Maddo, except my stepfather was a terrible man who ended up fucking my personality up hard. Sometimes the best one can do is just...come to terms with things and try to go with life as it happens. No point walking on if you spend your life so bothered by something.
Unless you're implying that you found out that you're adopted. In which case I don't really think it matters because your family that you've known loves you and cares for you all the same.
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